I’m done with the boys doing all the chasing, it’s time to flip the script and have girls chase you! Who is with me on this? In today’s article, I’m going to share with you some practically proven tricks on how to make a girl fall in love with you . These are essentially the same mind tricks that girls apply to you and make you so obsessed with them. So if that sounds interesting, then let’s get started!
how to make a girl fall in love with you
‘how to make a girl fall in love with me?’ you may ask. Well, you can’t really have a simple and quick recipe with a couple of presents, a few doses of handsomeness, and a bunch of stupid pick-up lines. Each girl is unique in her own way.
Still, if you want to make a girl fall in love with you, just be sure that old-school tricks no longer work. Educate yourself a bit. The world has moved on from presenting flowers. You have to be creative, smart, and easy-going and more importantly, know what NOT to do or say to make a girl fall in love with you.
Are you confused? Well, don’t be, make this article your guiding map to know exactly what are the things you should do to make a girl fall in love with you.
Call her the f word
Call her the ‘f’ word and by the ‘f’ I mean friend of course, not the other F in your mind. Women aren’t used to being put in the friend-zone. They’re the ones that put guys in the friend-zone all the time. When you put her on the friend-zone, and that happens to them for the first time ever, because no other guy has had the courage to do so, they’re going to be so confused. They’re going to see this as a challenge, like how dare this dude do this! They’re going to increase their sexual flirtation with you to try to get out of the friend zone and voila! you got her chasing you.
You could drop subliminal bombs here and there, you can send her a flirty text like I think we should be friends (winky face) or I had a great time today, friend (winky face) this is going drive her wild.
The bachelor effect
Why do you think the show ‘Take Me Out’ is so captivating? They put one guy vs 30 girls to compete for him. So not only do the girls obsess over him more, but also every girl that watches across America or the world is also obsessed with this guy. You want to know why! Because it’s like a bandwagon effect where one girl sees another girl claims a guy or wants a guy, they will also want this guy because in their head they believe if that girl wants him, he must not be that bad. It’s called the bachelor effect. So what you should do is have more girls or at least be perceived to be wanted by more girls.
This is why you should not only focus on your crush but instead, you should be spreading your flirtatious seed around the whole globe. You should be dating more girls, liking more girl posts, talking to more girls, approaching two or more girls each hangout so you start spreading your web and it appears that you are that coveted bachelor.
Nail the first impression
The majority of guys let the nerves get the best of them when it comes to their first impression. They’re all jittery and shy and lack confidence. Well, you need to kill it on that first impression. The first time you see her, make her remember you, so you are always on her mind. She won’t be able to shake your image off. She won’t be used to ever running into a guy that’s as confident as you.
To gain that confidence, a popular trick that I’ve always loved to do is to use a physical barrier like glasses. Fetch a pair of glasses then go out and approach a girl. I promise you, you’re going to feel 10 times more confident because the glasses act like a physical barrier that makes you feel safe and for whatever reason you act more confident.
Be a challenge
When you talk to a girl for the first time, you should be a little bit evasive. You should make it a little bit hard. You don’t want to be like a complete open book that just word-vomits everything out onto her. This is boring! You’ve already told her your whole life. There’s nothing new for her. Instead, you want to keep aces up your sleeve.
Drop bits of nugget here and there. Keep the mystery and make her want more and more of you. When you become a challenge, she’s going to chase you. So what are you waiting for? Go! and make that girl fall in love with you.
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